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Weekly reflections on existence, meaning, and exploring the experience of coming home

The art of living

Hi Reader, You know, what I really want to do is teach. But the stuff I want to teach about seems non-teachable. Stuff about the spiritual life (as if that's some kind of unified thing I could point to) or meaning and purpose (as if those are externally definable goals as opposed to things you generate for yourself and your life). It occurs to me that what I write about is the art of living (as if I'm any good at it). And what does an art teacher teach? Not art, that's for sure. They teach...

A few disconnected ideas

Hi Reader, Idea one: As I have continued to practice this thing I call coming home (which I declare includes everything I do, even when I don't see how or why, and even when I utterly fail at it—or maybe especially then), I hear lots of things that seem to be hints about how to come home more skillfully. One of these hints that's been resonating with me is self-betrayal (a term I hear most frequently from the excellent Arbinger Institute). Self-betrayal is when I have an impulse to do or say...

Nothing ends

Hi Reader, This newsletter marks the end of this series. Fittingly, it's about the idea that nothing ends. The last few weeks I've written about the spirituality/empiricism distinction, what God is to me, whether God exists, and I even took a crack at naming an empirical God: SE. I've continued to reflect on these things, and the only thing I want to state about them this week is that to me, saying SE exists is little more than saying there's actually something really real out there (or maybe...

Who/What is SE?

Hi Reader, Last week we looked at this word, "everything." It's like Superman ice cream: hard to tell what flavor it is, or even which one it's trying to be, and also it's a bit silly. The plural flavor of everything is the collective: take all the individual stuffs that exist and talk about them all together. The singular flavor of everything refers to the interconnectedness (and interbeing) of all things, including past and maybe future. And I'll even say it refers to all that as expressed...

Everything is an interesting word

Hi Reader, Everything is an interesting word. I love that sentence. I don't know many sentences that can be interpreted two drastically different ways like this. (Send me your candidates, though.) In this case, the different interpretations are themselves interesting. Let's look closer, with a little help from some punctuational expressiveness. "Everything" is an interesting word. This is clearly referring to the interestingness of the word "everything." And it IS an interesting word! In...

Hunger implies food

Hi Reader, You'll recall last week I proved the existence of God. Ok, haha. Very funny, Michael. I can be more precise: I explored the idea that we can, at least in part, define God in such a way that God is more or less likely to exist, and with a sufficiently broad definition, God is inevitable and essential. (That definition being something like God is simultaneously everything and the source of everything.) I ended by saying that yes, I do think God exists. And I mean that actually, not...

Does God exist?

Hi Reader, If we're going to explore this question, we need to talk about something I prefer to avoid: definitions. Definitions are boring. But as a professional writer par excellence, surely I can make this interesting. Let's consider it by way of a parallel example: Do islands exist? You're thinking... "yes." (Right?) Next question, then: do outcars exist? You're thinking... "what's an outcar?" (Right?) Ok, I'll tell you. An outcar is whatever part of a car is sticking out of a garage. If...

Science's inexorable encroachment on religion

Hi Reader, When I was younger, as I was "losing my religion" (so to speak), I was quite taken with the idea that science was steadily "taking ground" from religion. An example that probably won't be contentious is Galileo, who was accused of heresy by the church when he advocated the idea of a heliocentric solar system. The thought was that "God's Truths" were being discredited again and again by the scientific method, so eventually the whole structure would fall down. That makes a kind of...

Spirituality is about self-determination

Hi Reader, Spiritual is the opposite of empirical. In other words, there's measurable stuff (empirical) and stuff that must be interpreted (spiritual). Broadly speaking, I'm dividing reality into the physical world we can measure and the spiritual world that occurs inside each of our individual experiences of being. When we look at the world from this perspective, we get a few valuable outcomes. First, we get that my experience is mine alone (and yours is yours), because you can't experience...

What I mean when I use the word "spiritual"

Hi Reader, If you're just re-joining us, welcome back! I'm done with the email portion of my white paper project and am returning to weekly newsletters on my usual topics of existence, meaning, and coming home. Time is very dear right now and I'm still not done with the final edit and visual design of the white paper. I would seriously love to be finished with it, but it still needs some unknown amount of hours and I've scarcely managed to put even fifteen minutes into it this week. So I...

Weekly reflections on existence, meaning, and exploring the experience of coming home